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Jadi Korban PHP Lebih Sakit Daripada Diputus Diputusin pacar setiba-tiba itu memang bisa membuat kamu shock berat dan sakit hati berkepanjangan. Soalnya, kamu sama sekali nggak menyangka karena lagi sayang-sayangnya sama dia. Tapi, walau sakitnya setengah mati, sebenarnya ada yang lebih sakit dari kamu, kok. Yup, siapa lagi kalau bukan para cewek korban harapan palsu alias korban PHP.
Nggak mengada-ada, loh. Menurut Stefanie Safran, seorang pakar hubungan pertemanan, menjadi korban PHP ataubreadcrumbing memang lebih menyakitkan daripada diputusin pacar secara tiba-tiba. Soalnya, dibanding kamu yang udah jelas statusnya, para cewek korban PHP di luar sana nggak bisa menuntut apapun. Mau marah-marah ke cowok yang bersangkutan? Rasanya nggak tepat juga karena hubungan mereka belum punya status apa-apa.
Basically,breadcrumbing memang nggak lebih dari permainan emosi yang dilakukan cowok (pun sebaliknya) buat mencegah gebetannya pergi tapi nggak pernah ada niat buat serius. Ya, semacam artis yang bersikap baik ke para penggemarnya, deh.
Jadi, dibanding jadi korban PHP, kamu yang tiba-tiba diputusin pacar nggak perlu buru-buru sedih, ya. Soalnya, kamu masih bisa berkomunikasi dengan mantan dan meminta penjelasan kenapa dia bersikap seperti itu.(mns)
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