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Mahar Terlalu Besar, Wanita Ini Jadi Tamu Undangan Pernikahan Mantan (Sumber: YouTube/ Nina Nurmalasari)
Jodoh memang tidak bisa diketahui manusia. Seorang wanita asal Makassar harus rela melepas sang kekasih yang menikahi wanita lain. Lantaran pihak keluarga wanita meminta uangpanaik yang telalu besar pada pihak laki-laki.
Dalam budaya masyarakat Sulawesi, uangpanaik memang sudah menjadi adat yang harus dituruti oleh laki-laki yang ingin menikah. Jumlah uangpanaik ini tergantung permintaan pihak keluarga calon mempelai wanita yang kemudian disetujui oleh pihak calon mempelai pria.
Dalam video yang viral setelah diunggah akun Instagram @makassar_iinfo ini, terlihat seorang wanita dengandress biru menyalami sepasang pengantin di pesta pernikahan. Wanita berbaju biru ini kemudian bergantian memeluk pasangan pengantin tersebut dan berfoto bersama mereka.
Dalam keterangan video dikatakan sang wanita berbaju biru merupakan mantan kekasih mempelai pria. Pernikahan mereka gagal lantaran pihak keluarga wanita berbaju biru meminta uangpanaik yang terlalu besar kepada sang pria. Tidak mampu memenuhi besaran uangpanaik tersebut, sang pria akhirnya memutuskan untuk menikahi wanita lain.
Banyak warganet yang menyayangkan hal tersebut. Sebagian warganet menganggap permintaan uangpanaik pihak keluarga perempuan terlalu memberatkan.
"Nikah atau cuma ajang nyari pamor keluarga gengsi digedein itu nikahin anak atau jualin anak," ujar pemilik akun @arul.hairul22.
Namun sebagian lainnya menganggap uangpanaik adalah adat masyarakat Sulawesi yang memiliki tujuan yang baik. Uangpanaik dianggap penting agar sang pria tidak dengan mudah menceraikan istrinya, lantaran uang yang dikeluarkan saat melamar sangat besar.
"@dailamihamzah klau bercermin dr kluarga sy yah mba.. Contoh aja, msalah iman yg dimiliki pria itu mnjdi hal yg utama mba psti. Krn gini sekaya apupun si pria masa iya orgtua mau nyerahin anaknya sm pria yg tdk bsa bertanggung jwab dgn Tuhannya sndiri ???? kemudian Uang panaik dan mahar itu beda.. Uang panaik itu smacam bntuk pnghargaan si pria kpd wanita dgn memberi uang utk bekal prsiapan pernikan spt utk gedung,katering dll tp nilainya tdk dipaksakan semampunya si pria aja. Cm kadang bnyak yg slah artikan sbg tolak ukur gengsi. Sy juga mrasa kurang stuju klo adat di jadikan ajang gengsi. Mgkin penjelasan sy bsa membantu ," ujar pemilik akun @rizkysyakina.