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Prinsip Parenting Must Without Must Dalam dunia
parenting dikenal prinsip
must without must . Anggia Chrisanti, konselor dan terapis di Biro Konsultasi Psikologi Westaria menjelaskan arti sederhananya adalah harus tanpa harus.
“Maknanya menghilangkan kata harus dalam pengasuhan. Karena setiap kata`harus' memiliki kata menekan, memaksa,” jelas Anggia. “Dan itu tidak hanya mengandung konsep negatif, melainkan juga bisa menimbulkan trauma,” ujarnya.
Misalnya, harus pintar, harus berani, harus rajin, dan lain-lain. Minimal, ketika ada kata 'harus', maka sesungguhnya mengajarkan anak untuk tunduk karena takut, bukan karena paham. Selain itu, secara teori otak, semua informasi (pembelajaran) hanya akan berpindah dari otak kiri ke otak kanan apabilan masuk dalam kondisi menyenangkan.
Baca :
Kejaksaan Negeri Maros Tangkap Buronan Kasus Kredit Tani “Semua informasi hasil penginderaan (termasuk informasi) pasti masuk pertama melalui otak kiri. Sayangnya, otak kiri sifatnya hanya
short term memory atau ingatan jangka pendek,” ujar Anggia.
“Maka agar informasi bisa pindah ke otak kanan atau ingatan jangka panjang, maka syaratnya yaitu informasi tersebut harus masuk dalam situasi dan kondisi yang positif,” pungkasnya.
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