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5 Kebiasaan Buruk yang Harus Ditinggal Sebelum Menikah Uzone.id -Saat pacaran, kamu dan pasangan akan sangat mudah membentuk kebiasaan baik dan buruk. Bicara lebih jauh tentang kebiasaan buruk—seperti posesif dan cemburu buta, jika dibiarkan, hal ini dapat meruntuhkan fondasi hubungan asmara kalian.
Karena itu, kamu dan pasangan perlu menghindari kebiasaan buruk sebelum untuk menikah. Apa saja kebiasaan buruk tersebut?
Mengharapkan pasangan untuk membaca pikiran kamu
Berhenti berpikir bahwa kamu bisa mendapatkan hal-hal yang kamu mau tanpa meminta. Sebab, pasangan tidak bisa membaca pikiran kamu. Kalau kamu menginginkan sesuatu, katakan saja secara terbuka dan tidak perlu bertele-tele.
Mengancam untuk pergi saat dalam keadaan sulit
Ketika masih pacaran dan datang satu masalah sulit, kamu mungkin sering mengancam untuk minta putus.
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Namun begitu kamu sudah memutuskan untuk menikah, kamu harus membuang jauh-jauh taktik ini. Kamu harus mampu menghadapi masalah yang ada d depan mata.
Terjebak dalam rutinitas yang membosankan
Sebelum menikah, mulailah bertualang. Kamu juga perlu keluar dari zona nyaman. Pergilah berkemah atau pergi ke tempat yang baru, sendirian. Ini perlu, supaya kamu tidak melulu terjebak dalam rutinitas yang membosankan. Lagipula, kamu perlu melakukan hal-hal luar biasa sebelum waktu kamu tersita untuk mengurus rumah tangga.
Saling menyalahkan
Beberapa pasangan punya kebiasaan saling menyalahkan. Kamu mungkin sering berada di pihak yang sibuk membela diri dan menyalahkan pasangan kamu. Jika dibiarkan, hal ini dapat menjadi kebiasaan beracun. Kamu dan pasangan justru akan kehilangan kesempatan untuk saling berbuat baik.
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Daripada saling menuding, kamu dan pasangan lebih baik sama-sama bertanggung jawab atas kesalahan yang terjadi. Ini merupakan ciri dari hubungan yang sudah matang dan sehat secara emosional.
Mencoba membuat pasangan cemburu
Pernikahan adalah soal membangun hubungan yang aman bagi kamu dan pasangan. Ketika kamu mencoba membuat pasangan cemburu sebagai hukuman atau cara untuk mendapatkan perhatian, kamu justru akan merusak perasaan aman tersebut.